The National Council on Aging estimates that 1 in 10 Americans over the age of 60 has been the victim of elder abuse.
And it's not just physical abuse that鈥檚 a problem. Doctors see many different types of abuse or mistreatment.
How to recognize the signs of elder abuse
Although elder abuse can happen to anyone, people who suffer from dementia, depression, physical impairment or social isolation are most vulnerable.
These are the types of abuse, and possible signs that an older adult might be experiencing them:
- Psychological abuse: The older adult's caregiver or family members use intimidation, threats or verbal abuse.
- Sexual abuse: The older adult fears being touched.
- Neglect: The older adult's basic needs (bathing, eating, living in a safe environment) are going unmet, either because of self-neglect or caregiver neglect.
- Physical abuse: The older adult has unexplained bruises, cuts, rope burns or even fractures.
- Financial exploitation: The older adult is missing money, documents or belongings. Unlike other kinds of elder abuse, which are usually carried out by family members or caregivers, financial exploitation often comes at the hands of people who don't know the victims.
Health care providers are able to screen for physical and sexual abuse pretty readily in the clinic setting, watching closely for potential signs of abuse and neglect 鈥 such as bruising, skin breakdown, poor personal hygiene and recurrent urinary tract infections 鈥 even when those issues aren鈥檛 what has brought a patient to see him.
If you have an older family member or friend who lives in a care facility, doctors recommend being alert to subtle signs like their acting withdrawn or less communicative than usual. Victims of mistreatment or abuse can be afraid to speak up, either because they鈥檙e afraid of retaliation or because they don鈥檛 want to get a caregiver in trouble.
Doctors may ask gentle, open-ended questions (e.g., 鈥淒o you feel safe where you live?鈥 or 鈥淎re there any people you don鈥檛 like?鈥) to try to figure out what鈥檚 going on, a technique they recommend to family members who think direct questions might cause their loved one to shut down. You should also talk with your loved one鈥檚 physician about any suspicions, so they can be extra alert during exams.
Scams, fraud and financial abuse
Fear of speaking up can be even more pronounced when the abuse takes the form of financial exploitation, which happens when an abuser manipulates someone to get access to their money, property or other assets. People are often embarrassed when this happens and don鈥檛 want to tell anyone about it.
It can involve family members or caregivers stealing money or forging signatures 鈥 but can also include phone calls, letters or emails that claim to be from the IRS or Social Security Administration, or from people who say you鈥檝e won a lottery or other prize.
It鈥檚 important to follow your instincts and talk to someone you trust if your loved one is evasive about finances, money is missing or something just doesn鈥檛 feel right.
What to do if you or someone you love needs help
Your physician, or your loved one鈥檚 physician, is a safe person to talk with about any kind of issue 鈥 and even if you have someone accompanying you to an appointment, you should never hesitate to ask your doctor to talk in private if you鈥檇 prefer that the other person not hear your concerns.
If you are experiencing abuse 鈥 or suspect someone you know might be experiencing it 鈥 talk to your doctor or use one of the following numbers:
- You can request a free senior well-being check from the city of Chicago, for yourself or someone else, by visiting or calling 311.
- Illinois operates a free elder abuse hotline at (866) 800-1409 (voice) or (888) 206-1327 (TTY). You can stay anonymous when you call.
